THE MOST COMMON 20 BAD HABITS OF HIGHER-RANK INDIVIDUALS
1. Wants to WIN IT ALL
The need to won it all cost and in all situations. Whatever it takes.
2. Adding Too Much Values
Meddling small things. Micromanaging. Desire to add our opinions in every discussions.
3. Passing JUDGEMENT
The need to rate others and impose our standard on others.
4. Making Destructive COMMENTS
The needless sarcasms and cutting remarks that we think make us sound sharp and witty.
5. Starting with "No", "But", or "However"
The overuse of these negatives qualifiers which secretly say to everyone : I AM RIGHT AND YOU ARE WRONG.
6. Telling the World how SMART we are
The need to show people that we are smarter than they think we are.
7. Speaking when We Are ANGRY
Using emotional volatility as management tool. Uncontrolled.
8. Negativity or "Let me tell you why that won't work"
The need to share our negative thought even we are not asked.
9. Withholding Informations
The refusal to share information in order to maintain superiority over others.
10. Failing to give Proper RECOGNITION
The inability to appreciate, praise and reward.
11. Claiming CREDIT that We don't Deserve
The most annoying way to overestimate our contribution to any success.
12. Making EXCUSES
The need to reposition our annoying behavior as permanent fixture so people excuse us for it.
13. CLINGING TO THE PAST
Think that the past glories will take us the same success in the future. Living in the Past. Not Open Mind. Not Listening. Blaming situations or others.
14. Playing FAVORITES
Failing to see that we are treating someone unfairly
15. Refusing to express Regret
The inability to take responsibilities of our actions. Unable to admit that we are Wrong. Unable to recognize how our actions effect others.
16. NOT LISTENING
The most passive-aggressive form of disrespect others
17. Failing to Express GRATITUDE
The most basic form of bad manners. Ca not say "Thank You". Unable to Feeling grateful.
18. Punishing the Messenger
The misguided need to attack the innocent who is actually trying to help us. Can not listen. Need someone to blame.
19. Passing The Buck of BLAMES
Blaming everyone except ourselves
20. An excessive need to be "ME". EGO.
Overfocusing on ME or US. Think that we have done great, the Best Ever and no one can beat us.
Sure that we do still own several points above. What should we do?
Believe that our past success will not in definite bring another same success.
Believe that other people are worth to listen.
Believe that you are not a superhero who can reach your success without others.
The higher you go, the more your problems are Behavioral.
What next? Build list of:
1. TO DO LIST
2. TO STOP LIST
So, how many habits you own from the list?
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