Senin, 26 Maret 2018

SYLLABUS DIGITAL COURSE

Syllabus 

Module 1
5 Domains of Digital Transformation

Module 2
Customer Networks & the New Path to Purchase

Module 3
Understanding Digital Customer Behaviours

Module 4
Platform Business Models

Module 5
Coopetition, Disintermediation and Asymmetric Competitors

Module 6
Building Data as a Strategic Asset for your Business

Module 7
Big Data at Work: New Data, New Tools and Templates of Value

Module 8
Innovation through Experimentation: AB Test and Minimum Viable

Module 9
Translating the Lean Startup to Enterprise Scale Innovation

Module 10
Adapting your Value Proposition

Module 11
Mastering Disruptive Business Models

Module 12
Surviving Disruption: 6 Incumbent Responses to a Disruptive Challenger

Module 13
Leadership and the Customer Value Imperative Frameworks

Selasa, 06 Maret 2018

RETAIL RULES BEFORE FRANCHISING

*Retail Rules before Franchising*

Pada proses Business Mastery dalam persiapan mem-franchise-kan bisnis, kami sering berdiskusi dan mengingat2 kembali pakem2 bisnis ritel. Ini diperlukan agar dapat membimbing para mitra franchisee memahami dan menjalankan bisnisnya.

Sebagian besar bisnis yg difranchisekan memang berbasis ritel. Presepsi "Retail" dibeberapa negara kadang berbeda. Di Amerika, jika kita mengucapkan "retail" presepsinya sebagian besar adalah toko busana (fashion). Di Indonesia, kata "retail" mungkin lebih dipresepsikan sebagai toko kelontong (mini market). Di Korea atau Jepang, mungkin presepsinya lebih ke toko kosmetik.
Tetapi dalam hal ini yang dimaksud dengan outlet retail adalah gerai/toko fisik yg berdiri di atas sebuah lokasi.

Rule #1 Best Location.
Gerai ritel wajib berada dilokasi yg tepat! Lokasi itu wajib memiliki kondisi:
- Berada di area target marketnya
- ‎Memiliki exposure yang optimal
- ‎Memiliki akses yg mudah dicapai

Rule #2 The more space, the more sales
Dibisnis ritel, pada umumnya Penjualannya berbanding lurus dg luasan gerainya. Maka untuk membandingkan produktifitas gerai ritel, kita bisa membandingkan berapa Sales (penjualan)nya dengan luasannya.

Rule #3 Penuh, Lengkap, Murah
Gerai ritel biasanya harus memberikan KESAN: Penuh (barangnya tidak kosong & ramai pengunjung), Lengkap (semua yg dicari pembeli tersedia), dan Murah (lebih murah, banyak diskon).

Rule #4 Best Service
Bisnis ritel akan tambah sukses saat pelanggannya mulai merekomendasikan gerainya kepada calon pembeli lainnya. Hal ini hanya akan terjadi bila pelanggan merasa sangat puas dengan pelayanan yg didapat dari gerai ritel tersebut..

Rules retail di atas adalah beberapa landasan yg perlu kita siapkan untuk Business Model kita yg layak difranchisekan. How retail you are..

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#retailbusiness
#Franchise
#FranchiseAcademy
#SmallBusiness
#franchiseconsultant

Jumat, 16 Februari 2018

7 Science To Be Effective

*How to Be Efficient: 7 Science-Backed Ways to Build Speed as a Habit*
_Written by Clifford Chi_

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My college roommate was the fastest writer I’ve ever met. If he had a 10 page paper due at 9 AM on a Thursday, he would start writing it at 6 AM ... that day. And the craziest part of all was that he always got A’s. I couldn’t never grasp how he could do something in a few hours that took me a full school week to do.

When I asked him how (and why) he did everything last minute, he told me that he needed the pressure of an impending deadline to spark his motivation. He also told me that if you leave things last minute, they only takes a minute to do. Wise words.
Download our complete productivity guide here for more tips on improving your productivity at work.
Leaving things to do last minute can be an effective, yet nerve-racking, way to work faster, so I decided to research some more science-backed alternatives for improving efficiency. Read on to learn how you can build speed as a habit and boost your productivity.

How to Be More Efficient

Set deadlines for each of your tasks.
Break projects down into smaller tasks.
Work around other people.
Work within ultradian rhythms.
Listen to white noise.
Find an accountability partner.
Silence your inner perfectionist.

1. Set deadlines for each of your tasks.

According to Parkinson’s law, the amount of time you spend on a certain task depends on how much time you make available to complete that task. If you don’t give yourself a deadline to finish a task, then you’ll take as long as you like on it. But if you enforce a time limit on a task, the pressure you feel trying to beat the clock will compel you to finish the task before your deadline ends, forcing you to work faster.

Timing your tasks can also put you in a mental state of flow. Flow is when you’re so immersed in an activity that you can only focus on that said activity, unaware of everything else going on like your thoughts, emotions, and time. In other words, you’re in the zone.

Flow occurs when you set clear goals that are challenging, yet attainable. Accomplishing them requires full focus and complete control of your skills.

Setting a time limit on a task is an effective way to trigger flow. Finishing a task before time runs out is a manageable goal. And it produces just enough pressure and stress to thrust you into full focus, which enables you to use your skills to their highest potential.

2. Break projects down into smaller tasks.

Starting a new project is always daunting. There’s a ton of work to do, and the finish line is barely visible. Since the reward of this big accomplishment is so far away, it almost seems like it’s not even worth starting. It’s easy to slug through work when you don’t feel a sense of accomplishment everyday.

But what if you could feel accomplished multiple times a day? Would you feel energized and motivated to work harder and faster?

Harvard Business Review analyzed over 12,000 diary entries of knowledge workers and discovered that a sense of progress, no matter how big or small, was the most important factor in boosting emotions, motivation, and perceptions during the work day. And the more frequently workers experienced progress, the more productive they were.

If you break down projects into small tasks, you can achieve a minor goal or even multiple goals in one day instead of one major goal in a few days, weeks, or even months. Constantly feeling a sense of progress is what boosts your morale and productivity in the long term. Small wins help you work faster.

3. Work around other people.

Have you ever played a sport or an instrument in front of an audience and realized you performed better compared to when no one’s around? When I play guitar and sing by myself, I think I sound good, not great. But when I play and sing in front of my friends, I think I sound like Justin Bieber.

This can be attributed to a psychological phenomena called social facilitation. If you perform something in the presence of others, their evaluation of you inflates your level of psychological engagement. This added stress helps you perform well-rehearsed or easy tasks better in front of people compared to when you’re alone. Psychologists have witnessed social facilitation occur with cyclists, students, and even cockroaches (yes, they made cockroaches perform a task in front of a cockroach audience).

If you feel like you’ve mastered your job, but want to build more speed, try working around other people. When people can see what you’re doing and potentially evaluate you, your stress levels will reach an optimal level, prompting you to work harder and faster.

4. Work within ultradian rhythms.

The human body operates on 120-minute biological intervals throughout the day called ultradian rhythms. During the first 90 minutes of the interval, your mental energy peaks, and after that, your mental energy drops down into a trough for about 30 minutes.

To maximize speed and productivity, it’s best to work in 90 minute sprints when your body is naturally energized, followed by 30 minute rest periods when your body is naturally exhausted. This allows you to take full advantage of your body’s fluctuating energy levels.

Sustaining your focus for 90 minutes straight can be a challenge, though. According to Psychology Today, people can only stay focused for 20-25 minutes before their mind starts to wander.

To work with your attention span, use the pomodoro technique during your 90-minute sprints (Work for 25 minutes, then rest for 5 minutes).

Working while you’re naturally energized, resting while you’re naturally exhausted, and taking short breaks to restore focus will ultimately help you reach peak productivity and speed.

5. Listen to white noise.

Music has always been a mood-lifter, but it’s hardly a speed-builder. According to Psychology Today, listening to music with words makes your brain’s language centers pay more attention to the song’s lyrics than your current task, if it requires reading, writing, or talking.

Listening to new music is also not conducive for productivity. New music is novel, and since your brain likes novelty, it releases dopamine when you listen to it. This draws your attention toward the music and away from work. So contrary to popular belief, even though classical music and movie soundtracks usually don’t have words, if you never listen to those genres, they can actually disrupt your concentration,

But what should you do if your workplace is too loud or you’re tired of listening to those annoying spurts of clacking keyboards or colleague chatter?

White noise is your solution.

According to the Journal of Consumer Research, ambient noise at a moderate volume is ideal for enhancing creative performance. Throwing a pair of noise cancelling headphones on and playing white noise can replicate this effect.

White noise sustains concentration because it’s constant. It sounds the same, so your brain gets used to it. Auditory distractions can’t affect you anymore. This boosts your focus on the current task at hand, allowing you to work faster.

6. Find an accountability partner.

Gretchen Rubin, a renowned researcher of human nature and happiness, recently released The Four Tendencies, a book that dives into how humans respond to expectations. She discovered that humanity falls into one of four categories: Upholder, Questioner, Obliger, and Rebel.

Most people belong to the Obliger category. Obligers eagerly meet outer expectations but struggle to meet inner expectations. For example, Obligers never miss deadlines, but they also can’t seem to find time to exercise.

To help them meet their inner expectations, it’s crucial for Obligers to attach outer accountability to these internal goals. And one of the most powerful accountability tools is having an accountability partner.

No one wants to let other people down or be perceived as lazy and unproductive. That’s just human nature. So, for instance, promising your manager or colleague that you’ll write 1,000 words every day -- and having them regularly check up on you -- will motivate you to actually get it done and help you work more efficiently.

7. Silence your inner perfectionist.

Perfection and speed don’t mesh well. Repeatedly reviewing your work, triple-checking for errors, and doing extra work rather than entrusting it with others delays progress, drains your energy, and can ravage your emotional health. Perfection is the enemy of productivity.

The problem with perfectionists is that they have an all or nothing mentality. If their work isn’t perfect, they consider it a failure. The thing is, you can keep polishing and refining your work, but your efforts will only produce marginal improvements -- and it’ll be late. It’s important to remember that most companies consider producing good work and hitting deadlines a huge success.

Blusukan Presiden Joko Widodo oleh Gubernur Sumbar Irwan Prayitno

Tulisan bagus dari Gubernur Sumbar Irwan Prayitno berasal dari partai PKS tentang makna blusukan Jokowi. Sebuah pengakuan yang jujur dan menjunjung nilai2 sportifitas.

Hormat dan salut saya kepada Irwan Prayitno.
Bahwa belajar kepada pemimpin unggul bukanlah kehinaan tetapi sebuah kemuliaan.

Semoga ini mengakhiri fitnah dan ujaran kebencian yang masif berkembang di Sumbar selama ini.
Semoga Pemilu 2019 nanti kita laksanakan pesta demokrasi rakyat dengan penuh keceriaan dan riang gembira tanpa ada kekerasan dan benturan.

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_Harian Singgalang, 15 Februari 2018_

*Blusukan Presiden Jokowi*
Oleh Irwan Prayitno

Sudah menjadi kekhasan Presiden Joko Widodo (Jokowi) untuk melakukan blusukan ke berbagai tempat di Indonesia. Termasuk di Sumbar. Blusukan yang berasal dari Bahasa Jawa ini ternyata ada di Kamus Besar Bahasa Indonesia edisi V. Arti blusukan dalam kamus tersebut adalah masuk ke suatu tempat dengan tujuan untuk mengetahui sesuatu.

Ketika beliau menjadi Gubernur DKI Jakarta,  kegiatan blusukannya diikuti oleh para wartawan karena pada waktu itu dianggap sebagai sebuah hal yang baru dan unik sehingga kemudian dikenal masyarakat luas. Pada waktu itu terjadi pro kontra terkait blusukan ini. Bagi yang kontra menganggap apa yang dilakukan adalah pencitraan. Sedangkan bagi yang pro menganggap itu memang tugas seorang pemimpin. Namun dengan berjalannya waktu, pro kontra blusukan mulai mereda.

Setidaknya saya sudah dua kali menemani Presiden Jokowi blusukan di Sumbar. Yang pertama pada 2016, dan yang kedua pada 2018. Gaya Presiden Jokowi dalam blusukan adalah mendatangi masyarakat, bertanya, mendengar dan berdiskusi, sambil tak lupa menyalami masyarakat yang dijumpai. Di samping itu juga mendatangi berbagai tempat pelaksanaan proyek program pemerintah.

Satu hal yang masih saya ingat waktu blusukan Presiden Jokowi 2016 adalah ketika saya dan Presiden Jokowi satu mobil, waktu itu posisi kami di jalan A. Yani Padang. Kami dalam perjalanan menuju RM Lamun Ombak hendak makan siang setelah dari peresmian Tugu Merpati Perdamaian. Tiba-tiba Presiden bertanya di mana lokasi rumah sakit pemerintah. Maka saya jawab RS M. Jamil yang berlokasi di Jati. Dan tanpa diketahui oleh Paspampres Presiden Jokowi minta mobil diarahkan menuju RS M. Jamil. Mobil yang seharusnya belok kiri di simpang jalan Sudirman menjadi belok kanan menuju RS M. Jamil.

Setiba di RS M. Jamil, waktu itu Direktur Utama RS M. Jamil ada di sana dan sempat menyiapkan tempat untuk Presiden. Namun Presiden Jokowi minta ditunjukkan bangsal rawat inap, dan akhirnya kami bersama Dirut RS M. Jamil menuju bangsal rawat inap. Di sana Presiden Jokowi langsung bertanya kepada pasien tentang Kartu Indonesia Sehat (KIS) dan mereka menjawab sudah punya, dan ada menjawab belum punya. Lalu Presiden menyimpulkan ada yang tidak cocok antara realita dengan data yang diterima. Presiden Jokowi langsung  menghubungi Kementerian Kesehatan, kemudian mengambil tindakan. Yaitu meminta Kementerian Kesehatan semaksimal mungkin menyerahkan KIS kepada masyarakat. Dan saya diberi waktu satu bulan untuk menyelesaikan permasalahan yang ada. Alhamdulillah tugas bisa dilaksanakan dalam sebulan dan saya laporkan kepada Presiden Jokowi melalui Sekretaris Kabinet Bpk. Pramono Anung.

Ini adalah kisah blusukan Presiden Jokowi yang saya ikuti di mana beliau mendatangi masyarakat, menyalami mereka, bertanya dan mendengarkan yang mereka rasakan, menindaklanjuti kepada pihak terkait, sehingga satu persatu masalah bisa diselesaikan. Dengan blusukan ternyata bisa dilihat permasalahan yang ada sehingga data yang didapat dari staf mungkin saja tidak sesuai kondisi sebenarnya.

Pada blusukan 2018, Presiden Jokowi mendatangi proyek padat karya yang dikerjakan petani. Mereka langsung ditanya terkait luas sawah yang mereka punya dan lainnya. Setelah mendapat informasi dari petani maka Presiden memerintahkan untuk memperbanyak melakukan cetak sawah.

Kemudian ketika mendatangi proyek irigasi, didapati kenyataan bahwa sawah dalam wilayah kabupaten tidak teraliri irigasi, padahal irigasinya ada. Ternyata karena ada undang-undang yang mengatur bahwa irigasi pemerintah pusat luas areanya di atas 10.000 hektar, pemprov 3.000 – 10.000 hektar, kabupaten 3.000 hektar ke bawah. Ketika ditanya ke pemkab mengapa irigasi tidak sampai di sana, ternyata pemkab tidak ada dana untuk membangun irigasi yang bisa mengairi sawah 3.000 hektar ke bawah. Presiden meminta agar Kementrian PUPR dan Pemprov membantu masalah ini. Presiden juga menyatakan bahwa masalah ini terjadi di berbagai tempat di Indonesia.

Demikian juga ketika penerima PKH (Program Keluarga Harapan), yang ternyata tidak sedikit keluarga yang menerima PKH tapi anaknya tidak mendapat Kartu Indonesia Pintar (KIP). Maka menteri terkait diminta untuk melakukan pendataan yang benar dan menyelesaikan permasalahannya dengan segera.

Dengan melihat langsung blusukan Presiden Jokowi saya bisa simpulkan bahwa ini bukan pencitraan tetapi merupakan kerja seorang pemimpin dalam mengayomi rakyatnya. Bahkan dalam berbagai blusukan Presiden Jokowi minta agar jangan difoto atau divideokan. Terutama ketika yang beliau lakukan dianggap sensitif untuk dipublikasikan. Bukan karena hal negatif tapi justru hal positif yang dilakukan seorang pemimpin kepada rakyatnya, tapi beliau memilih untuk tidak dipublikasikan agar tidak terjadi polemik atau pro kontra di tengah masyarakat.

Dari blusukan Presiden Jokowi tersebut saya memandang bahwa tidak hanya Presiden yang harus blusukan, tetapi juga gubernur, bupati/wali kota juga perlu. Karena pemimpin juga harus turun langsung memeriksa realita lapangan dengan data yang diberikan anak buah. Karena selain datanya belum tentu benar, program yang dijalankan belum tentu sesuai kebutuhan masyarakat dalam realitanya, dan belum tentu kita selaku pemimpin tahu apa yang diinginkan/dibutuhkan masyarakat jika tidak mendengar langsung dari mereka.

Bahkan mungkin masyarakat hanya butuh disapa langsung oleh pemimpinnya. Ini yang terjadi selama tiga hari di puluhan titik di Dharmasraya, Kab. Solok, Kota Solok, Sawahlunto, Tanah Datar, Padang Panjang, Padang, dan Kab. Padang Pariaman. Saya melihat wajah-wajah masyarakat yang sangat senang disalami dan disapa oleh Presiden Jokowi. Ada yang meluapkan kegembiraannya dengan sangat emosional berteriak histeris. Banyak pula yang menyebut baru kali ini Presiden datang ke tempat mereka. Hal seperti ini merupakan sebuah peristiwa yang tidak bisa dinilai dengan uang, karena kebahagiaan, ketulusan, keikhlasan hanya bisa dinikmati oleh hati. 

Sebagai Gubernur, saya belajar banyak dari blusukan Presiden Jokowi. Bahwa pemimpin harus turun ke masyarakat/lapangan guna memeriksa data yang ada, melihat kemanfaatan dan kecocokan program yang dijalankan, dan mendengarkan aspirasi masyarakat. Dan juga tak lupa menyapa masyarakat. **

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Selasa, 13 Februari 2018

WAYNE ENTERPRISE

Wayne Enterprises sebuah perusahaan yang berbasis di Gotham City dan berkantor pusat di Wayne Tower.

Wayne Enterprise didirikan oleh kakek buyut Bruce Wayne, Solomon Wayne dan Joshua Wayne. Perusahaan ini dipimpin secara turun-temurun oleh keluarga Wayne. Bruce Wayne mewarisi perusahaan ini setelah kedua orangtuanya Thomas Wayne dan Martha Wayne terbunuh dalam sebuah pristiwa perampokan.

Bisnis utama Wayne Enterprise adalah bisnis di bidang kontraktor pertahanan militer. Namun begitu, ia mempunyai banyak lini usaha lain. Di antaranya adalah

- bisnis penerbangan,
- otomotif,
- kesehatan,
- pertambangan,
- retail,
- elektronik,
- riset, sampai
- media.

Nah, dengan perusaaan sebesar Wayne Enterprise yang menyokong seluruh kebutuhan keuangannya, lalu kira-kira, berapakah kekayaan bersih seorang Bruce Wayne?

Menurut Entertainment Weeky, disebutkan bahwa nilai kekayaan Bruce Wayne adalah sebesar USD9,2 miliar atau sekitar Rp122,5 Triliun. Sungguh sebuah angka yang tentu saja sangat besar.

Jumat, 26 Januari 2018

Hol's last letter before 24 Hours later Died

A bit of life advice from Hol:

It’s a strange thing to realise and accept your mortality at 26 years young. It’s just one of those things you ignore. The days tick by and you just expect they will keep on coming; Until the unexpected happens. I always imagined myself growing old, wrinkled and grey- most likely caused by the beautiful family (lots of kiddies) I planned on building with the love of my life. I want that so bad it hurts.

That’s the thing about life; It is fragile, precious and unpredictable and each day is a gift, not a given right.

I’m 27 now. I don’t want to go. I love my life. I am happy.. I owe that to my loved ones. But the control is out of my hands.

I haven’t started this ‘note before I die’ so that death is feared - I like the fact that we are mostly ignorant to it’s inevitability.. Except when I want to talk about it and it is treated like a ‘taboo’ topic that will never happen to any of us.. That’s been a bit tough. I just want people to stop worrying so much about the small, meaningless stresses in life and try to remember that we all have the same fate after it all so do what you can to make your time feel worthy and great, minus the bullshit.

I have dropped lots of my thoughts below as I have had a lot of time to ponder life these last few months. Of course it’s the middle of the night when these random things pop in my head most!

Those times you are whinging about ridiculous things (something I have noticed so much these past few months), just think about someone who is really facing a problem. Be grateful for your minor issue and get over it. It’s okay to acknowledge that something is annoying but try not to carry on about it and negatively effect other people’s days.

Once you do that, get out there and take a freaking big breath of that fresh Aussie air deep in your lungs, look at how blue the sky is and how green the trees are; It is so beautiful. Think how lucky you are to be able to do just that - breathe.

You might have got caught in bad traffic today, or had a bad sleep because your beautiful babies kept you awake, or your hairdresser cut your hair too short. Your new fake nails might have got a chip, your boobs are too small, or you have cellulite on your arse and your belly is wobbling.

Let all that shit go.. I swear you will not be thinking of those things when it is your turn to go. It is all SO insignificant when you look at life as a whole. I’m watching my body waste away right before my eyes with nothing I can do about it and all I wish for now is that I could have just one more Birthday or Christmas with my family, or just one more day with my partner and dog. Just one more.

I hear people complaining about how terrible work is or about how hard it is to exercise - Be grateful you are physically able to. Work and exercise may seem like such trivial things ... until your body doesn’t allow you to do either of them.

I tried to live a healthy life, in fact, that was probably my major passion. Appreciate your good health and functioning body- even if it isn’t your ideal size. Look after it and embrace how amazing it is. Move it and nourish it with fresh food. Don’t obsess over it.

Remember there are more aspects to good health than the physical body.. work just as hard on finding your mental, emotional and spiritual happiness too. That way you might realise just how insignificant and unimportant having this stupidly portrayed perfect social media body really is.. While on this topic, delete any account that pops up on your news feeds that gives you any sense of feeling shit about yourself. Friend or not.. Be ruthless for your own well-being.

Be grateful for each day you don’t have pain and even the days where you are unwell with man flu, a sore back or a sprained ankle, accept it is shit but be thankful it isn’t life threatening and will go away.

Whinge less, people! .. And help each other more.

Give, give, give. It is true that you gain more happiness doing things for others than doing them for yourself. I wish I did this more. Since I have been sick, I have met the most incredibly giving and kind people and been the receiver of the most thoughtful and loving words and support from my family, friends and strangers; More than I could I ever give in return. I will never forget this and will be forever grateful to all of these people.

It is a weird thing having money to spend at the end.. when you’re dying. It’s not a time you go out and buy material things that you usually would, like a new dress. It makes you think how silly it is that we think it is worth spending so much money on new clothes and ‘things’ in our lives.

Buy your friend something kind instead of another dress, beauty product or jewellery for that next wedding. 1. No-one cares if you wear the same thing twice 2. It feels good. Take them out for a meal, or better yet, cook them a meal. Shout their coffee. Give/ buy them a plant, a massage or a candle and tell them you love them when you give it to them.

Value other people’s time. Don’t keep them waiting because you are shit at being on time. Get ready earlier if you are one of those people and appreciate that your friends want to share their time with you, not sit by themselves, waiting on a mate. You will gain respect too! Amen sister.

This year, our family agreed to do no presents and despite the tree looking rather  sad and empty (I nearly cracked Christmas Eve!), it was so nice because people didn’t have the pressure of shopping and the effort went into writing a nice card for each other. Plus imagine my family trying to buy me a present knowing they would probably end up with it themselves.. strange! It might seem lame but those cards mean more to me than any impulse purchase could. Mind you, it was also easier to do in our house because we had no little kiddies there. Anyway, moral of the story- presents are not needed for a meaningful Christmas. Moving on.

Use your money on experiences.. Or at least don’t miss out on experiences because you spent all your money on material shit.

Put in the effort to do that day trip to the beach you keep putting off. Dip your feet in the water and dig your toes in the sand. Wet your face with salt water.

Get amongst nature.

Try just enjoying and being in moments rather than capturing them through the screen of your phone. Life isn’t meant to be lived through a screen nor is it about getting the perfect photo.. enjoy the bloody moment, people! Stop trying to capture it for everyone else.

Random rhetorical question. Are those several hours you spend doing your hair and make up each day or to go out for one night really worth it? I’ve never understood this about females 🤔.

Get up early sometimes and listen to the birds while you watch the beautiful colours the sun makes as it rises.

Listen to music.. really listen. Music is therapy. Old is best.

Cuddle your dog. Far out, I will miss that.

Talk to your friends. Put down your phone. Are they doing okay?

Travel if it’s your desire, don’t if it’s not.

Work to live, don’t live to work.

Seriously, do what makes your heart feel happy.

Eat the cake. Zero guilt.

Say no to things you really don’t want to do.

Don’t feel pressured to do what other people might think is a fulfilling life.. you might want a mediocre life and that is so okay.

Tell your loved ones you love them every time you get the chance and love them with everything you have.

Also, remember if something is making you miserable, you do have the power to change it - in work or love or whatever it may be. Have the guts to change. You don’t know how much time you’ve got on this earth so don’t waste it being miserable. I know that is said all the time but it couldn’t be more true.

Anyway, that’s just this one young gals life advice. Take it or leave it, I don’t mind!

Oh and one last thing, if you can, do a good deed for humanity (and myself) and start regularly donating blood. It will make you feel good with the added bonus of saving lives. I feel like it is something that is so overlooked considering every donation can save 3 lives! That is a massive impact each person can have and the process really is so simple.

Blood donation (more bags than I could keep up with counting) helped keep me alive for an extra year - a year I will be forever grateful  that I got to spend it here on Earth with my family, friends and dog. A year I had some of the greatest times of my life.

..’Til we meet again.

Hol

Xoxo

Minggu, 21 Januari 2018

YOUR BELIEFS AND ABILITIES - Ali Zaenal Abidin

YOUR BELIEFS AND ABILITIES (and what to do about them).

Up until my first year in college, I always told people who're having English conversations with me that I'm more of a passive in my English. So I can understand what they're saying, but I'm not able to actually respond with a long answer. I only responded with those one-word or one-phrase kind of answers. Yes, no, ok, I agree, I understand, thank you, you're welcome, etc.

"My English is more of a passive" was always my answer. So many times I explained myself that way that, as I now reflect back, it became the label I subconsciously gave to myself. And that label became who I am at that time. That was my belief. It became part of my identity. When it comes to English, Ali is passive.

What that did to me was (without me even realizing it at that time) it practically destroyed my willingness and drive to SPEAK English fluently. Even worse, it gave me a sense of certainty about me being passive in English. And when you feel certain about something, you will grow a feeling of need to stay consistent with what you're certain about...regardless if it's impacting you in a positive or negative way. Which in my case, it had a horrible impact.

Because from there, it started to effect other aspects of my personal development beyond my English as well.

But here's the BIG question now, that label I subconsciously gave myself had nothing to do with my potential to become an active and fluent English speaker, wasn't it?

Of course not! The potential was always there. But because of that belief, I never got myself to tap into that potential. And each day that belief got stronger, each day I became further away from using that potential.

So let me remind myself and everyone who's reading this: your belief has NOTHING to do with your ability.

Let me give another simple illustration.

As I'm typing these words, there's a guy sitting next to me who's reading on his phone. Do I have the ability take his phone and break it? Yes I do. But would I do it? No, I will not.

Why not? Because that would make me a harmful person. And that's not who I am. I never label myself that way. That's not part of my belief.

I believe I'm a peaceful person. I believe adding positive values to people's lives is an important part of my way of living. So to be consistent with that label (that belief), I will not use that potential - that I have actually - to take the guy's phone and break it.

Consciously or subconsciously, we all have been giving many labels to our selves (and others). Both positives and negatives, empowering and disempowering ones. These labels we give ourself become a part of our identity, and they control a whole lot of what we do and don't do.

Keep and maintain the empowering ones, but make sure to eliminate the ones that are disempowering you to have a better quality of life and fulfillment.

The first key is awareness.
Ask yourself and write down (yes, don't just do it in your head) :
1. What area in your life that you're currently unsatisfied with?
2. What label(s) you might be giving to yourself that's stopping you from taking the necessary actions to improve it?

The second key is eliminating whilst changing them with a better and more empowering beliefs.

Ask yourself and write down:
1. Who (what kind of person) do I need to become to experience significant improvement?
2. What references (specific moments) from my past experiences that can show that I was once that person I wanted to be?
....and if you really can't find any (which I doubt, unless you're not really searching enough)...
3. Who do I know that have showed that characteristics I want to become (because they're homo sapiens like me. So if they can, then I can as well. And I better not make any excuses about it)

Do this process or schedule it NOW in your agenda.

....or unless you've been labeling yourself as a procrastinator?

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